Government leaders are constantly under a crushing weight of responsibility. No matter what they say or do, many many people will be upset with them, adding even more weight to their burden. It’s a tough job.
2. Educated Instincts
Government leaders generally have educated instincts and expertise that most others do not. They are looking at the big picture, and not just fixating on the immediate.
3. Appointed By God
Government leaders are given their existance and therefore, authority by God (Rom 13:2). You don’t need to agree with them, but you should honour them (1 Pet 2:17).
4. Common Grace
According to God’s common grace, your government leaders have likely made many good decisions that have come from wisdom not their own.
On the flip side, according to God’s common grace, they have been restrained to not be as corrupt or foolish as they could have been.
“The king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the LORD; he turns it wherever he will.” (Prov 21:1)
5. Supporting Our Leaders In Prayer
Government leaders are to be regularly prayed for:
” I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior” (1 Tim 2:1-3)
What are you thankful to God for in your government leaders? What are you asking expectantly in faith that God would do through them?
Charles Haddon Spurgeon has held a special place in my heart for many years. Dubbed as the “Prince of Preachers”, Spurgeon is widely known for his gift of teaching and preaching. He knew his Bible deeply, his Lord intimately, and the human heart profoundly. You couldn’t ask for a better guide for plumbing the rich depths of the Psalms.
In The Treasury of David, readers can find a storehouse of Biblical insight and pastoral profundity on the entire book of Psalms. This 3 volume set contains Charles Spurgeon’s personal commentary on nearly every single verse of every single Psalm. And what commentary he provides; the Holy Spirit who empowered his tongue for rich expository preaching also equipped his pen for exposition. The commentary he makes is faithful to the Biblical text (often referencing the original Hebrew), pastorally warm, and beautifully phrased.
What’s more, Spurgeon provides hand-picked quotes on each Psalm from other authors (ranging from the early church to his own contemporaries). How helpful it is to have quotes from the likes of Augustine, the Puritans, and others. Many of these quotes were found and compiled by his personal researchers, reminding us that even the Prince of Preachers couldn’t do everything but gladly leaned on others to help him fulfill his ministry. As we use resources like this, we too can stand tall on the shoulders of giants.
Hints To Preachers
There is also a section for each Psalm called, “Hints To Preachers”. The aim in this section isn’t to patronize experienced preachers, but to prompt and encourage up-and-coming preachers with some simple suggestions on preaching verses in the Psalm. This is a section that will prove valuable regardless of how advanced a preacher might be (after all, simple points can often be more profound and easily overlooked!).
At first glance, I didn’t like the text layout of this set. The font size is a bit small, and the general layout seemed quite vintage from what my contemporary eyes are accustomed to. Weirdly enough, I came to appreciate these things as I read on. After all, this is a commentary written in the 19th century and is appropriately a good vintage. There’s something particularly charming about reading old books, and what first was distracting has now become endearing to me. The font size still remains a tad on the small size, but that probably helps keep it to 3 volumes instead of 5!
Lastly, one particular highlight for me comes from Volume 3 where Spurgeon spends 350 pages (!) on Psalm 119 alone. Where there is ink to be spilled, the Prince of Preachers will gladly let his cup overflow.
This set is the exquisite commentary of a gifted preacher, helpful cream of the crop quotes from others, and practical preaching tips for the reader. Any serious student of the Bible would do well to have this as part of their library. Although, it seems to be most appropriately useful for those who lead Bible studies or preach. A man leading the Sunday service from a Psalm might do well to have his thoughts and prayers influenced by the treasury of this commentary.
I am very thankful for Hendrickson Publishers keeping this rich commentary in print and for graciously providing me a set to read and review. This would make an excellent addition to the family library as well as a gift to anyone who regularly teaches the Bible.
I worked extremely hard to learn the Biblical languages. Anyone who has learned Greek and/or Hebrew can probably remember the countless hours spent memorizing vocabulary and paradigms, chanting, and writing writing writing it all out. I can still remember the regular “memorizing migraines”. To be certain though, learning the languages was worthwhile. The reward for language learners is being able to study God’s word on a whole new level for ministry and personal devotion.
Yet, like many others, I have found my grip on the languages to loosen as the years go by. I don’t think I’ll ever be a language scholar (or any other scholar for that matter!), but I would like to retain something of the language skills I developed.
The idea is this: providing an opportunity for the reader to conveniently lay eyes on a single verse each day in both English and the original language. Using 365 of the most commonly used Biblical Hebrew words in descending order as the days go on, the book gives a daily opportunity to help readers remember and retain their language skills.
In “Keep Up Your Biblical Hebrew In Two Minutes A Day“, I have been able to take as much or as little time as I have available each day. Even a quick glance of 20 seconds each day is 20 seconds better than nothing! But as the title of the series suggests, just a few minutes is all you need to have a fairly exhaustive exercise each day.
The layout is very easy on the eyes and also intuitively designed to help progress through the exercise. Each entry begins at the top of the page by offering the day’s verse in English (the translation varies), then proceeds to give the new vocabulary word for the day (and in small print the review vocab from the previous two days). Then it presents the full verse written in Hebrew. Depending on your famliarity at this point, you might be able to translate some or all without any study helps. And finally, which I think is the biggest help of all, the page offers an English/Hebrew table breakdown of the words in the verse. Here’s an image to show you what I mean:
Now to be clear, this book will not teach you Biblical Hebrew. Rather, it will help trigger the existing knowledge you have (once had?) of the language, thereby stimulating you to re-engage and gradually be sharpened. Far from being exhaustive, this book gives study helps without giving away the whole hog. It doesn’t spell out which verbal stem is being used and also doesn’t draw attention to prefixes/suffixes. That means that even advanced readers can benefit from this, and might motivate some to dig out the old Hebrew textbooks.
Books from this series would make for an excellent gift for your pastor, and any seminary student in your church. Considering the strong potential it has to help one “Keep Up…” their language skills for life and ministry, the price is really quite reasonable.
Overall, this is an excellent resource which I cannot commend too highly. Whether you find yourself in the Promised Land or wandering in the wilderness of Biblical Hebrew, this resource by Jonathan Kline is sure to keep you exposed to the language regularly and encouraged along the way.
I received a review copy of this book from Hendrickson Publishers in exchange for an unbiased review.
I really take issue with the current cancel culture, and yet I have recently cancelled my Netflix subscription out of moral duty and outrage.
Before now, I have viewed Netflix sort of like a public library. It provides me many of the media titles I’m interested in, as well as titles I deem uninteresting or inappropriate. Choosing to overlook the bad, I’ve been happy to enjoy the good. But Netflix is now promoting something that cannot be overlooked or ignored.
And I am not alone; many people around the globe are voting with their wallets and cancelling their subscription out of disapproval of something Netflix has done.
Last week, Netflix promoted the upcoming release of a film called, “Cuties” with a very inappropriate image of 11 year old girls in sexually provocative outfits and poses. Read that last sentence again. 11 year old girls put forward to be sexually provocative. The text description of the film is this:
A global outcry was raised against Netflix for their promotion of this film, and they have since changed the image and description as well as tweeted out an apology for the whole debacle. The film is still in the works to be released on September 9th.
Now, assuming that Netflix is truly sorry for the incident described above, we can push against the “cancel culture” and offer a redemptive moment. We can forgive Netflix for the blunder and hope that this informs their decisions in the years ahead. However, though there can be forgiveness for their actions, there still remain consequences. I have lost confidence in Netflix as a streaming media service and will not resume my subscription. The fact that there are some within the organization of Netflix who considered this acceptable material to promote is most concerning. This reveals the greater reality happening within our culture: the sexual revolution is continuing to stretch our moral boundaries, thereby creating new moral boundaries.
The Bible speaks of this dynamic in Romans 1:
“For although they knew God, they did not honour him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.” (Rom. 1: 21)
“And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practicethem.” (Rom. 1:28-32)
The Bible is incredibly insightful in interpretting the world around us. What we learn from this passage is that all humans are worshippers, either of God the Creator or of his creation. When a person rejects the goodness of God out of preference for anything else, God gives them up to what they want – to their shame and destruction.
Our culture is absolutely mesmirized by sexuality. Much of today’s music, movies, TV, and social media contain explicit reference to some form of sexuality. There’s no doubt that as the sexual revolution has soldiered on into expanded territory, it has left conservative views behind in its wake of destruction.
The fact that Netflix has blundered by posting inappropriate material to promote this film reveals that our culture is increasingly becoming desensitized to sexual immorality. When the chanting mantra of the sexual revolution is, ‘if it feels good, do it’ then the boundaries are constantly going to be explored and redefined.
I recently made a couple online posts to announce my disapproval and discontinuation of my Netflix subscription and have found the public comments and private messages to be quite illuminating. Many people are as outraged as I am and have agreed to likewise cancel their subscription to Netflix. But others have come to the defence of the film for various reasons.
Full disclosure, I haven’t seen the film and so I cannot comment on the entire content. But the obvious must be stated – the original controversial image is representative of one of the scenes in the film (you can see it in the trailer):
“Cuties” Trailer, (01:14)
There does seem to be some indication that the film isn’t as explicit as the original artwork and description have led us to believe. But still, I maintain the conviction that it remains very concerning for the trajectory it is setting: normalizing pedophilia. Though the film isn’t explicitly child pornography, it is implicitly condoning it with 11 year old girls dancing sensually. Some might say the point of the film was to address the over-sexualised culture children are growing up in, but being classified as a “coming-of-age” film, it seems to be more entertainment than an exposé
Another defence being raised is that we should give more credit to the film if for no other reason than to acknowledge the black female director, Maïmouna Doucouré. The cultural agendas at play are staggering. What is being said is this: even if the film is a bit controversial, we should allow some leeway because Black Lives Matter. For the purposes of this blog, I won’t press into this. But let the reader consider how some social agendas are serving as a trojan horse, with deadly implications waiting to be revealed.
What I am saying is that I, along with many others, are concerned that this latest controversial promotion of the film “Cuties” is an indication that our culture has already become more desensitized to what is moral and what is immoral sexually. The fact that this issue is controversial instead of obvious is most telling.
What does this mean? Well, the Bible tells us that it is to be expected that the culture goes with the flow: “…following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience” (Eph. 2:2). The world is left to float down the stream of the increasingly secular influences of the age, which is actually evidence of God’s judgement (see again Romans 1). This means we shouldn’t be surprised that boundaries are stretched and redefined in our culture, but neither should we be desensitized to see these changes as normative.
At the very least, this ought to inform our choices for media consumption. Which entertainment providers are we financially supporting and subjecting ourselves to their influence? Are we willingly paying to be entertained by gradually darkening shades of grey? At what point will we as Christians say enough is enough and draw the line. Perhaps, like me, this has become a watershed moment for you to consider cancelling your Netflix subscription and looking for wholesome providers to support and enjoy.
As our culture continues swirling in a destructive downward denial of God, it will increasingly accept and celebrate that which is anti-God and anti-good. Yet, God remains a God of mercy and has purposes to pluck sinners like me and you from the fire and set us on a new trajectory.
“But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ – by grace you have been saved…” (Eph. 2:4-5).
For those who realize their wrong-headed denial of God, there is a moment of redemption offered to you. Jesus Christ came to bring us back to God through his perfect life of up-stream righteousness, hanging on the cross as a substitute for our sin, and being raised from the dead to conquer sin and death.
If our culture’s moral compass gives us any indication for where we are headed in the years to come, it doesn’t look good at all. But according to the Bible, there is a stabilizing hope for those who trust in Jesus, know the full forgiveness of their sins, and are destined for heaven. This stabilizing hope will allow us to think objectively about cultural issues like this one and to speak up publicly about it. We cannot be silent. And whatever happens in this world, we can find great confidence that this world is not our ultimate home.
“But as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared for them a city.” (Heb. 11:16)
Since my wife and I welcomed our first son into the world about 8 months ago, we’ve been absolutely smitten with him. Parenting a little one has many challenges, but we are constantly struck with how lovely he is to watch, and to hold, and to play with.
But I’ve had this nagging feeling that I need to be careful with my affections. I’m the sort of person who feels deeply and loves deeply. The question that has been popping up in my mind for the last several months is – do I love him too much?
Some might not think it possible to love someone too much, or even if you could, its not a problem. But my conscience has been pricked that my affections toward my son need to be checked.
Who Are We To Love?
Jesus was once asked what the most important command was in the law. He responded, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matt. 22:37).
This call to love God is not a compartmental allocation of my affections, but is demanding it all. And this has been really helpful to me in the last couple weeks particularly. Because, if I’m honest, I can see how I have viewed my son as a idol-in-a-diaper. Instead of enjoying God’s gifts to me and channeling that into greater love for God, my affections have too often remained solely on my son.
Piper and Augustine’s Advice
Just recently I listened to a talk by John Piper entitled Love Her More, Love Her Less where he spoke about the need to find greater satisfaction in God than in your marriage. The idea is this: love, cherish and adore your wife above all others in this world, and, love, cherish and adore your God above your wife. In this, God is glorified and your marriage will be strengthened with intense joy. I recommend this talk (and the poem he refers to) highly.
After I applied this to my own marriage, I got thinking about how I could view my son. It is indeed a good and right thing to love him, and I ought to freely let my heart grow in fondness and tender affection for him, but God must have my greatest love.
So what would it look like to love one’s spouse, child, job, possessions, health, talents … less than God?
I stumbled upon a particular writing of Augustine that was very helpful in knowing how to differentiate love for God and love for other things. But more than that, I learned how to see the loveliness of something as a way to better understand the greater loveliness of God.
Here’s what he wrote:
Let God be our hope. He who made all things is better than all things. He who has made beautiful things is more beautiful than all things. He who made what is mighty is mightier; and he who made what is great is greater. Whatever you have loved, he will be that for you. Learn to love the Creator in the creature; the maker in what is made, lest you grasp what he has made and lose him by whom you too have been made.”
The things we are drawn to love and enjoy (relationships, food, travel, work, etc) are good to be loved and enjoyed. After all, it is God “who richly provides us with everything to enjoy” (1 Tim. 6:17). But it is so crucial that we enjoy these things with our hearts and minds enlightened with a deeper knowledge of God’s goodness. When we enjoy something, we can say, “And God is even more lovely than this? Wow.”
For me, I can look at my son and enjoy him. I mean, really enjoy him. His laughs, his playful concentration, his love for us, and his baby chub. There’s no guilt about loving what is lovely. There’s no guilt because I can see through the temporal happiness in each moment to learn more of the eternal character of God, who is truly lovely.
A dying man’s last words can be very significant. They reveal the character and heart of a man, coloured with an unfiltered display of emotion. The revealing nature of one’s last words is no less true of the first Christian martyr, Stephen, in Acts 7. His unique role as a Spirit-filled servant to the church led him to being persecuted to death for bearing witness to Jesus Christ. His forceful speech couldn’t be disputed or silenced, so he was killed by the religious leaders by stoning.
Stephen’s dying words are significant for us today in marveling at the Spirit-given grace and power within him (Acts 6:8). But not only can we marvel at this, we ought to learn as well. Just as Stephen was near to death, we too all are facing death at some point in our life. Like Richard Baxter used to preach as a “dying man to dying men”, so this a dying saint’s words are incredibly relevant to us dying saints.
Here are 3 truths from Stephen’s last words that teach us why a Christian can die well.
1. Jesus Is Waiting For You
And he said, “Behold I see the heavens opened, and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.” (Acts 7:56)
Stephen was granted a spectacular glimpse into the heavens just moments before he died, where he saw his Saviour Jesus standing. Hebrews 12:2 tells us that Jesus’ is now seated at the right hand of the throne of God, having accomplished his work fully. But Stephen saw Christ had apparently risen from his seat in order to await the imminent arrival of this faithful martyr.
What comfort it can be to a dying Christian to know they are loved by God in Christ. When our earthly bodies die, it is a wonderful thing to know that we are actually welcomed home with the Lord (2 Cor. 5:8).
Jesus was waiting for Stephen, which no doubt gave him great confidence to endure his final moments. And those who come to die in gospel faith before the second coming can share this same confidence that Jesus is waiting for you too.
2. Jesus Will Receive You
And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” (Acts 7:59)
As his body began to experience the boulder-blows, Stephen may not have been able to continue physically looking to the heavens. But as the pain increased, his faith was sustained. Quoting Psalm 31:5, just as Jesus himself had done on the cross (see Luke 23:46), Stephen called upon his Lord to bring him into glory.
Purchased by his own blood, Christians are loved and securely received by Jesus when they pass from this world to the next. There is no waiting period; there is no limbo. The dying thief was promised immediate entry into his kingdom, and Stephen anticipated the same.
Jesus will receive you immediately into his presence upon death. This removes the fear of uncertainty in those final days and moments of a Christian’s life. Whether painfully slow, or unusually quick, death can become to us a mere drifting to sleep (cf. Acts 7:60b), only to awaken to the beautiful smiling face of Jesus in glory.
3. Jesus Is Being Made In You
And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” (Acts 7:60)
Stephen was appointed as a deacon for his Spirit-filled life and godly character (Acts 6:5). And like us, he would’ve known the progressive nature of sanctification. His death came just after breathing this statement, but his words were full of life. His heart had been transformed by grace to become increasingly more like his Lord (see 2 Cor. 3:18).
What supernatural love Stephen had for his enemies. Again, his prayer bears a striking resemblance to that of Christ’s on the cross in Luke 23:34 – “Father, forgive them for they know not what they are doing”. What we see here is the grace of God at work to conform Stephen to become more like Jesus right up to the end.
Gospel mercy and grace is found for the ongoing work sanctification in a dying believer’s life. Resisting Satan’s lies, putting off sin, embracing Jesus as your supreme treasure, denying self, loving your enemies and praying for those who persecute you (Matt. 5:44).
Truth, Not Television
Despite natural inclinations to fear death, the last days and moments of a believer’s life can actually become the most precious expression of loving trust in Jesus. Don’t give me a magazine or switch on the TV if I am dying – give me truth about Jesus and the blessed assurance I have in him:
“Perfect submission, all is at rest,
I in my Savior am happy and blest;
Watching and waiting, looking above,
Filled with His goodness, lost in His love.”
Amber Guyer was sentenced to 10 years in prison due to her shooting and killing Jean’s brother Botham, who she claimed to have mistaken for a burglar, but later realized she had entered the wrong apartment.
What would you say to the person who shot and killed one of your closest loved ones? For many, it would be the best opportunity to inflict harm and revenge, giving the criminal the treatment they deserve. But what is so unique — and perplexing — is how Brandt Jean didn’t use his victim-impact speech to curse the officer, but to bless her. Instead of condemning her, he forgave her.
This is what the Bible calls loving your enemies:
“But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use and persecute you” (Matt. 5:44, NKJV).
This enemy-love runs against the grain of our natural instincts. We crave justice when we’ve been wronged, wanting the culprit to be taken to task for the crime committed. As one of my friends at work said, “I could never forgive someone for that.” Understandably so – how is it that anyone could extend mercy when the ache of grief is calling for judgment?
Yet for Brandt Jean, he did extend mercy and even love to the woman who killed his brother. And though this is nothing short of remarkable, it is at the same time nothing more than ordinary Christianity. In his defining moment on the stand, Brandt didn’t demonstrate any originality in loving his enemy, but rather was only imitating what he had learned from others before him.
THE APOSTLE PAUL IN PRISON
The Apostle Paul, who lived some 2000 years before, also knew the sorrow of evil actions. In Acts 16, we learn of how he and Silas had travelled to Philippi and begun doing gospel ministry. At one point they were instrumental in helping a young girl break free from demonic and social oppression, yet as a result they were dragged out, falsely accused, beaten, stripped of their clothes, and thrown into jail. But instead of fuming with anger or self-pity, Paul and his companion prayed and sang hymns to God (Acts 16:25). God was still good in the face of their awful circumstances.
The groundbreaking moment in that prison happened around midnight when an earthquake shook the doors and shackles open. But instead of making a quick getaway, Paul and Silas looked over to see the jailer ready to kill himself (likely because it wouldn’t fare well for him anyway for prisoners to escape under his watch).
Paul was less concerned about his own needs. Fixated on the needs of the jailer, Paul called for him not to hurt himself since they were still there. Here we see how Paul wanted the jailer’s good, instead of enjoying the harm of “justice”. Good did come — not only in the jailer’s life being preserved, but even moreso being saved when he fell down before Paul and Silas and trusted Jesus for the first time (Acts 16:30-31).
Paul would later write to the Philippians, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind along yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus…” (Phil. 2:4-5).
The reason Paul could love others is because he knew the love of Jesus. Brandt imitated Paul, even as Paul imitated Christ.
JESUS CHRIST ON THE CROSS
Jesus Christ had also been falsely accused, stripped of his clothes, publicly beaten and then crucified by the Roman empire (see Luke 23). But even when he was outrageously mistreated by his enemies, he prayed, “Forgive them, Father, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).
Jesus was mistreated without deserving any of it; he had always kept the law of God. The reason Jesus went to the cross was to willingly make a way for sinners to be saved from their sin and the wrath of God. At the cross, the justice of God was displayed by the punishment for sin taking place. And at the same cross, the mercy of God was displayed by Jesus taking the place of his own sinful enemies …like you and me.
“For God so loved the world that he sent his only son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
Jesus Christ was sent on a search and rescue mission to save enemies of God. In order that his enemies might be forgiven, Jesus laid down his own life and took it up again three days later. In Christ’s life, cross-death, resurrection and ascension, God made the way of salvation for the good of mankind, and the glory of his own name.
LOVE FOR ENEMIES
So, Brandt Jean’s love for his enemy didn’t originate in him, as if he was somehow by personality more predisposed to kindness. Rather he loves because Jesus first loved him (1 John 4:19).
That is how forgiveness is possible, from petty issues to painful trauma. The love that we show others is not ours, but God’s love that has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Rom. 5:5).
I am thankful, encouraged, and challenged by Brandt’s courageous love for enemies, and how we are all to do the same: “…forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you” (Eph. 4:32).
Do you know the sweetness of God’s forgiving mercy? And is there now someone who you need to forgive?
Insults are hard to deal with. Sometimes it’s just the slightest nuance in someone’s comment, but we receive it as a direct attack. Shots fired.
Could it be that we live in an age of thin skin? Even if we perceive the slightest breeze of another’s disapproval, there is an kind of frustration we feel. Often it’s a low-grade anger that we might feel towards the offender as we seek to bolster our own personal vindictive rationale.
Maybe you’re generally calm as a cucumber when given a slighted comment, but I suspect the wrong comment from the wrong person at the wrong moment can make you prickle like a cactus.
Something I’ve been learning over the years is the difference between the wise and foolish way of responding to insults. This lesson has come largely from a very pithy proverb:
The vexation of a fool is known at once, but the prudent ignores an insult. (Proverbs 12:16)
There is great wisdom found in this pithy proverb, so here are 4 reasons why you should ignore an insult:
1. It may have been unintentional.
On the most basic level, how many feuds have occurred because of a simple misunderstanding? Examples from your own life might be coming to mind now.
Just imagine your shoot-from-the-hip great aunt announces to the room how you’ve gained weight. Her comment likely wasn’t malicious (though certainly tactless). She didnt mean anything by it other than making conversation. Truly.
Sometimes giving others the benefit of the doubt helps us to not take every comment seriously and allows us to ignore otherwise unpleasant sentiments.
And if we are honest with ourselves, how many times have we been the one to unintentionally insult someone? Our own cringe-worthy memories should make us pause before casting stones.
Be merciful towards the tactless, for you are often one of them.
2. It doesn’t define you.
Lets say it is intentional slander. It is crucial to call to mind how that insult isn’t your defining moment.
Your identity is not based on the subjective opinion of others who may or may not be dealing with their own inadequacies as they insult you.
But consider what it means to have the identity of, as the New Testament often refers, “in Christ”.
At the beginning of Christ’s ministry, he was baptized publicly and his Father spoke from the heavens: “This is my beloved Son, with you I am well pleased”. (Mark 1:11)
For those who believe and follow Jesus as their personal saviour, there is a new identity given. You are found in Jesus, and all that is counted to him is counted to you. In Christ, you possess perfect righteousness.
You can handle momentary disapproval of others when you know the eternal approval from God in Christ.
3. It can prove you are a peacemaker, not prickly.
Instead of getting fired up at the hearing of the insult, there can be evidence of grace in preferring peace rather than injury in return. Here you see fruit of the Spirit, namely, peace, patience, gentleness and self-control (Gal. 5:22-23).
In his sermon on the mount, Jesus blessed the peacemakers, for they were to be called sons of God (Matt. 5:9). Christians prove their sonship by responding peacefully in the nitty gritty moments of receiving an insult.
Imagine the witness you would be to the risen Christ if you were known to others as a peacemaker…and not prickly.
4. It is very Christ-like.
Lastly, however undeserving you may be to receive an insult from another, it pales in comparison to the verbal abuse Jesus Christ received. He alone is the only one truly undeserving of disparaging comments.
Yet, “When he was reviled, did not revile in return; when he suffered he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly” (1 Pet. 2:23).
He has borne the greatest injustice peacefully, enduring much suffering, ultimately going to the cross for our sake. Not only that, but in so doing he left us an example to follow in our sufferings (1 Pet. 2:21).
By ignoring insults, both petty and painful, you prove yourself prudent and wise, following after your sympathetic saviour.
Commit yourself to your God, take a breath, and move on with your day.
Maybe you wouldn’t think of it in those terms, but many of us are inclined to prophesying our own future. This isn’t a special ability given from God, not even momentary enlightenment. But you just know. In your mind it can only go one way from here. It has a settled end.
Ironically enough, though you are the one making this future prediction, it never seems to be in your favour. The end result actually might be one you fear or dread. But to your credit, the prophetic inclination often proves to be true. Why?
You’ve just made your own self-fulfilling prophecy.
THE POWER OF SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY
Maybe it’s an apparent lack of progress in spiritual maturity. Maybe it’s that ongoing relationship tension. Maybe it’s that nagging fear that has clung on for years.
Whatever it may be, the temptation is to view change as unlikely; the glass is half-empty and will forever be half-empty. You’ve made the transition from feeling helpless … to hopeless.
Hopelessness is the secret power to self-fulfilling prophecy. Though a crew could expertly maneuver a mighty ship around the eye of a storm to find more pleasant waters, disheartened sailors will inevitably loosen their grip on the ropes. Like storm-tossed sailors, we can find our present circumstances bleak, lose any hope for things to change, which inevitably guarantees that things won’t. The prediction of floundering usually results in floundering.
THE POWER OF GOD’S PROMISE
What hope is to be found for floundering voyagers like you and me? In the midst of our murky future predictions shines a bright light that overcomes our fears. The darkness of our pessimism can be overcome by the in breaking of the dawn of gospel grace.
Jesus Christ has come into our world in order to reorient our self-destructive trajectory to being redeemed by a loving God. His cross death and triumphal resurrection from the dead have made a way for us to experience the greatest possible change. The Bible speaks of the human heart being like stone (Ez. 36:26), naturally cold, impenetrable, and hardened towards God and others. But by divine grace, cold hearts are warmed to trust in Jesus Christ to deliver us from the destruction of hell we were destined for. This change of heart causes us to have hope, where before we were hopeless.
This means that despite our pessimistic predictions, God is working a kind of holy progression in us and through us. There can be hope-filled progression in your life, because Jesus’ cross work has secured the basis of hope in your salvation.
A great reminder of this holy, hope-filled progression is found in this biblical promise:
“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Phil. 1:6)
Though not a promise for prosperity, this is a promise of gospel grace that shines into darkest crevices of our frustrations, turmoil, backslidings, fears of the future, unbelief, and temptations.
Jesus came to shine as a bright light for all – giving life and all vitality. Because you are a new creation (2 Cor. 5:17), there is what one theologian called an “expulsive power of a new affection”. The future is bright, because God is graciously working new desires for good works in and through you. God is working to change you, which in turn will dramatically affect the way things are around you.
This changes a person from problem child to peacemaker, from stick in the mud to taking up one’s cross, from constant despair to joyful maturity.
When you are tempted to make another hopeless self-fulfilling prophecy as the harbinger of doom, look to Jesus Christ who is the hope of the nations.
Steady on, sailor. Lift up your sails of faith, hold tightly onto the rope of God’s promises, and watch how your ship turns in a new direction.